D.Mae

I think i get it...maybe?

Wed, 23 May 2012 13:30:45 -0400

Over the past month I’ve had time to reflect on how I treat myself, and allow others to treat me. If you’ve TRULY taken the time to do something like this I can guarantee to you that there’s something in all of that stuff you hide behind that you don’t like. So why not change it? It’s just mind over matter right? If self-improvement were that easy I doubt that antidepressants would ever be prescribed, that gyms would open at 5 am, or that tabloids would sell faster that a real news paper. We’d all have it figured out and be trillionaires!

Ah, but, life my dear is not that easy. So, what have I done? I’m (read: slowly) making changes,in life, relationships, and work. Notice, there’s been no mention of My Love? I can’t even begin to touch on the subject without re-enacting the All By Myself scene from Bridget Jone’s Diary (you know the one!!) That’s the stage I’m in right now, raw. Who REALLY loves to see post after post of sugary sweet love anyway hmm? OK! I do, I think it’s great to be able to open yourself up to something so wonderful I cannot joke about it. *sigh* Right now, I can’t even picture it for myself, when I try…and I have to TRY, it just never seems to click. I have to be ok with it, and just focus on other aspects of my life in the here and now.

SO! I’ve decided that I have to focus even more on DMae, getting things even more in order professionally, and summer is on its way so there’s bound to be something fun ahead. Talking to an old friend of mine last week really helped me clear my head a bit. I was so stuck on..What can I do…maybe if i just…why can’t it happen this way…i want it now now NOW!! After the pity party for one, came me acting on the things I want. Again, the process is slow,but it’s happening.

I’ve hit a brick wall, and am trying to make my way over, under, or through the damn thing. I promise to bring you more coherent posts in the coming weeks…a sneak peak at the new totes I’ve been working on, a few more What’s Good Post, and maybe some more general life posts? What do you say? My advice to anyone who’s stuck, going through something tough, or if you just need a kick in that arse? MOVE!! GET OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY!!! Try something new, read this past post a few times, and talk it out with someone who loves you and takes no shit…it’ll help believe me.

How do you deal with your brick wall moments?

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A Letter, A Thank You, A Blessing

Tue, 15 May 2012 21:08:00 -0400

Today is a bittersweet day for my family, it’s my MomMom’s birthday. Another year has passed without her. Here’s something I wrote to her to say thank you….

Today would have been you 86th birthday, and I just wanted to thank you. It’s not enough,the words I mean. Those two words aren’t enough for me to tell you how much you mean to me. I miss you allot, but, right now more than ever. I just really miss the closeness we had, how you brought everyone together with the snap of a finger. The other night Aunt Joyce told me to “Keep lookin up” like you used to say, and I smiled . I just really wish I could have said I love you just one more time. Again, it would not have been enough. I just want to put it out into the universe that I’m thankful to have known and loved you. You were, are my inspiration. You helped me with so much, and I guess that’s why I feel like I need you now. I’m sure I’ll be fine,but it’d be nice to hear your voice. All I can do is to try to live up to who you see me as, try to live up to my name. Thanks for pulling me through, and loving me.

I love, and miss you,

Suggapinnin

What's Good? Funk Off, that's what!!

Tue, 15 May 2012 07:12:21 -0400

Hello dear readers,

This is the start of what I hope to continue as a new feature here on the blog. What’s Good, my first product review!!! Here we go::

I came across Funk Off, a line of handmade vegan bath and body products firstly on Thursday’s blog, and then at Little Chief Honeybee (who has her own scent, hellooooooo!!) I won’t lie, normally I wouldn’t buy a body product online not having been able to sample it, or smell it. Not to mention I’m picky in terms of scents, and I’m allergic to chamomile(where are my other label readers?!)

I went on ahead and took a look around the Funk Off shop and they have it ALL. Vegan soaps, lotions,body sprays, lip blams, shower gels…it’s all there, even shower kits!!! I of course went for the lip balms, i have a problem…right now there are 6 different balms, salves, and other lip goos(NO gloss or lipstick for me!!) in my bag right now. The scents of both the Soy Chai Latte and the Chocolate Buttercream are AMAZING!!! Both go on smoothly, and taste so good I have to try not to eat them. I’ve only had them for a few days,but, my lips are much softer!! I LOVE these balms. I may have to try a body spray or two soon. I prefer a spray over a perfume, which can be too strong for the warmer months.

Have you tried out a new product you’d like to gab about?

so long specks!!! on your way to your new home!!!

Sat, 12 May 2012 10:53:04 -0400

so long specks!!! on your way to your new home!!!

Just because I can’t get enough of this song and band....

Thu, 10 May 2012 17:01:07 -0400

Just because I can’t get enough of this song and band. It’s Time-Imagine Dragons

Just Remember......

Wed, 09 May 2012 10:43:23 -0400

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All from my Great Signs N Reminders board on Pinterest. All great reminders for me to keep my head up, heart full, and mind breaking through walls. Right now, it’s hard to believe all of this, but I know I’ll come around.

On today’s To-Do list::::::

finish throwing out old things i no longer use/want
wash hair (it takes FOREVER!!!!)
sketch out new product ideas
relax…at some point
tea, this really could go hand in hand with # 4!
catch up on my blogroll
yoga and/or ballet beautiful
emails
breakfast/lunch
don’t let the dreary weather make you dreary too!!

That’s my list for today! i hope what you see here encourages you to get out of the rut you’re in, or will push you out of falling into one. Enjoy your day!

This is a poem called Shake The Dust by one of my favorite poets...

Mon, 07 May 2012 17:21:00 -0400

This is a poem called Shake The Dust by one of my favorite poets Anis Mojgani, something I like to play for myself when I need a kick in the butt. For me, the past few weeks have been anything but easy, and the Universe is not letting up. The only way out is through. I can’t believe I just used that,but, I guess it’s true.

Over the next few weeks I’ll be finishing up my spring cleaning, getting rid of things I longer need, and getting things in order for DMae. I’ll be taking a few tips from this post, and making bigger plans for myself and the blog. I’ll need to be organized if I’m to have these done in a few weeks……

If you aren’t already be sure to follow me on Instagram as @nisforneemah to see what I’m up to!! See you there!!

4 X 2

Thu, 03 May 2012 17:01:26 -0400

I’ve been so lucky to have some great ladies on the blog as sponsors, here’s a little info on two of them in sets of 4…I like even numbers guys!

4 sentences me:

Hey! I’m Jessica, from My Love is Growing and last August, my husband and I purchased our first house, an 84-year old charmer that needed a little bit of love. Right now we’re working on renovating it into the perfect starter home. Follow us as we tear down walls, change out light fixtures, pick paint colours, install cabinets, well pretty much anything relating to a renovation… We’re learning a lot as we go and love sharing our story with you!

4 words that describe me:

creative, hard-working, friendly, independent

4 things I’m looking forward to:

- moving my husband and I’s bed/dressers out of my office and into our new master bedroom

- warm enough weather to wear dresses, skirts and shorts - without tights underneath!

- eating tons of food at Easter family gatherings

- getting our new stairs installed in our house

4 blogs to watch out for:

- Amy at A Design Dock http://www.adesigndock.blogspot.ca/

- Kyla at Kyla Roma http://www.kylaroma.com/

- Courtney at A Box of Paint http://www.aboxofpaint.com/

- and of course, Melissa at Dear Baby http://dearbabyblog.com/

4 sentences about me:

The beauty Circle is an outlet for me to share my creativity with readers. You’ll find makeup and hooping tutorials, reviews, and behind the scenes look at projects from the makeup artist’s point of view. If you have an interest in beauty, fashion, or hooping, you might like The Beauty Circle. Stop by and check it out :)

4 words that describe me:

Creative, diligent, detailed, lucky.

4 things I’m looking forward to:

Chad and I will be celebrating our first year of being married(April 9th)! I’m looking forward to that as well as the fun trip we have planned for the end of April. Easter is something else to look forward to, because my family has a tradition….we go to the shore and eat at Mac & Manco’s! I’m also really looking forward to the premier of the film Girl Walk/All Day on April 14th at Cinema 16:9….it’s going to be an entire night of multi-media dancing fun, and I’m going to be hooping there.

4 blogs to watch out for:

Aside of D.Mae of course, readers should check out:

http://missmementomori.com/—a visual feast of the arts.

http://theactorsdiet.wordpress.com—the life of a Hollywood Actress, meal by meal. Yum!

http://fashionenvie.net/—I envy her wardrobe! :)

http://www.hearthandmadeblog.com/—Awesome craft blog by an

awesome person…giveaways, tutorials, and more.

whatcha lookin at?

Mon, 30 Apr 2012 14:28:42 -0400

Good afternoon all! today I’m home with a migraine, having tea and watching some odd daytime tv(the Jeremy Kyle Show is like a civilized Jerry Springer.) I noticed today that one item in particular is a favorite over at the shop, it’s one of my favorites too!

Melodies!!!! It’s the first piece of mine that I went full on with color, I love black & white sooooo much! I’m so happy that everyone likes it just as much as I do. Over 1,000 views, and 26 loves, and I am feeling the love! This piece is painted onto a Large Unisex Anvil Organic Crew Neck Tee. So ladies and gents alike can wear this great piece.

Thanks so much for your love and support all!

Float On.

Sun, 29 Apr 2012 13:13:48 -0400

Things have been SO hectic over the past few weeks. My full-time job has been absolutely NUTS, it’s a bit hard to believe I made it through. I’ve been so scatter-brained and stressed out about almost everything. I found this post by Moorea Seal helpful in realizing that i’m not the only one who’s going through something. And this post by Thursday that light a fire under me to not give up no matter what.

It can be so easy to give up, and give in. To be “in it right now” (if you get that I LOVE YOU FOREVER!!!) but you have to expect that there is a light at the end of the tunnel, no matter how long it is. And for me, right now, I’m feeling as if I’m at the beginning of something that terrifies me. Things are changing and I’m not sure if it’s for the better or worse.

I’m a BIG believer in putting out energy that only you’re willing to receive back. Even for me it’s been difficult to hold onto that. I’ve felt SO NEGATIVE about it all, and that is a prime example of my beliefs. I no longer want that, so, this week it’s all changing. I’m no longer allowing myself to wallow in my own junk. Today is a new day, and I’m committing myself to having a great week.

In the next few weeks new products will be coming to the shop, and the May Photo a Day Challenge is a go. Don’t worry I’ll be doing a photo dump this week the last few April photos I’ve missed. Also we have a pair of mini interviews with two of this months sponsors.

Time to let that negativity float away.

Tag!!! I'm it?! Brought to you by Alivia of Brunch In April

Wed, 18 Apr 2012 13:14:02 -0400

This month I have the pleasure of sponsoring one of the most beautiful blogs I’ve come across in the past few years. BIA is beautiful,but, so is it’s creator. Alivia and I met through twitter, then her blog, and now I’m sponsoring this month. I noticed last week that she’d @ me on twitter but didn’t know what she’d meant until I got over to her blog today( sorry Alivia!!!) SO!!!! Here we go::

What is your favorite part of the day? LUNCH!!! Is that sad? It’s the time of the day where I get a real break at work, to relax and catch up with my work bff Irene (love you!!) If I could pick a second moment, it may be my commute home…I usually have my (new to me) Ipod Touch playing something I love (The Format, Damien Rice, Teitur, Steel Train, Rosi Golan, etc) and am reading if I’m on the train home.

Do you have a guilty pleasure band/artist? NOPE!!! I like what I like and that’s that!! I have been REALLY digging this song though. If I need a pick me up, this is it.

What is your favorite thing about where you live? I live in Collingswood, a little town about 20 min from Philadelphia. I like that fatc that there are great parks, and I can walk just about everywhere….except the craft store and mall :0( There’s always some sort of festival happening: Mayfair, The Green Festival, The Arts & Craft Festival, and so on. The bad thing about that is that 90% of the streets shut down at that time,but, it makes for a great day out on the town.

How cute is Luna?

I can hardly stand that amount of adorable!!! Can a barrow Luna for a cuddle? I promise to go on a nice walk, and there will be treats!!

The real #4! What is your biggest pet peeve? A broken promise, anyone who chews with their mouth open, repetitive noises(I CANNOT stand club music)….I’m going to stop now!!

Do you have a favorite celebrity?

Oprah is the ultimate for me. I think it comes from my watching it everyday with my MomMom when I was little. Everyday it was Sesame St, All MyChildren, Sally Jessie, and Oprah. I honestly only missed that last two “seasons” of the show…I actually tried to convince my mom to get satellite for our apt so that I could get the OWN channel. We can’t get one because management won’t allow us to place a dish on the roof of our unit…DAMMIT!!!) I admire Oprah because she worked to get where she is. The position she’s in now allows her to give back, and I’d LOVE to be able to give on that level. She’s honest, loving,and kind.

A least favorite? I’d rather not single any one out. I’ll just say anyone who doesn’t put in the work, who doesn’t respect their craft. Right now we live in a world of instant gratification, the public adores people who are willing to make a fool of themselves. AND THEN WE PAY THEM TO BEHAVE BADLY?!? I don’t get it! That was a rant, my apologies!

If you could travel to any place from a story, book, movie, etc where would you go and why? For some reason this is the first thing to come to mind, I’d read it last night, and 4 times since. I know of it’s author,but, don’t really know them. I’ve always loved her writing and have felt a connection to it. Then I think of Midnight In Paris, which is funny because it the third Woody Allen movie I’ve ever seen. It’s also the first that I LOVED, even more than Match Point which was my first WA, the second I can’t remember the name of…but it was funny, and strange. I’m rambling!! MIP because Owen Wilson’s character had the luxury of being able to be in the same place at two VERY different times. And in the end he got exactly what he wanted. AND, the costumes were AMAZING!!! Why? In the end I want to have it all figured out, packaged, and perfect(whatever that may be,) in my own place, creating, loving, and overall just happy.

What are 5 things you like about yourself? I’m passionate, that’s something everyone in my life, friend or family knows from the start. I won’t ever give up on the people I love, if I could give them all they wanted I would no matter what it takes. My sense of humor, it’s odd and it’s always been that way. I laugh til i cry at a good Meme or lolcat My height, for the longst time i just wanted to be tall, like my classmates….now i think i’d look just strange if I were 6 ft My hands, they remind my of my MomMom. Our hands look similar, think, long fingers, and strong.

If you could acquire one skill instantly, what would it be? Singing, my mom has this AMAZING set of lungs on her, and wish I’d done more singing outside of school and church when I was younger. I’m a car/shower singer, I still get terrible stage fright….so thinking of karaoke makes me panic.

What song would you choose if you could only listen to one song for the rest of your life? HANDS DOWN, NO CONTEST Angelica by Steel Train Just listen to it, I won’t have to explain.

When do you feel most safe? In the company of someone I love, friend or family…although they are one in the same.

How do you describe yourself in only five words? Passionate, Faithful, Quiet, Loud

I hope you enjoyed my second go at being tagged, you can see the first one here. Thank Alivia, you had some great questions. Now, normally you tag another blogger..but I did that last time. SO, this time I’m going to point you in the direction of the BIA blog and Alivia’s answers.

Photoaday catch up! Ahhhh, the end if last week was beyond...

Mon, 09 Apr 2012 19:12:21 -0400

Photoaday catch up! Ahhhh, the end if last week was beyond tiring! And, I wasn’t able to catch much test this holiday weekend either! I’m actually blogging from bed, after a VERY early start to my work week.

Day 6: Lunch, provided by management @ work. Yes, I had too much!

Day 7: Shadow, I took this a few years ago with an old point-n-shoot Casio, that died late last year.

Day 8: …in my wallet, the handwritten gift tag from my bf’s Christmas gift to me. It fell into my hand this morning as I was trying to shove my iPod into my wallet.

Day 9: Younger you, from an Easter long ago. My dad picked out that awesome navy blue sailor inspired # with shiny gold buttons, I hand shiny white shoes and frilly socks too. My dad had great taste when it came to fashion.. And I really mean that.

How was you Passover/Easter?

I missed three days in the April photoaday, my apologies. well,...

Thu, 05 Apr 2012 21:06:07 -0400

I missed three days in the April photoaday, my apologies. well, here’s what I forgot to post!!!!!

Day 3: mail…why I got a Justice catalog is beyond me. I know I look young,but, do I look 13?

Day 4: someone who makes me happy: I should say made, my mommom passed away. But still, the thought of her makes me smile. She was the greatest lady ever.

Day 5: tiny, one of my favorite earrings.

Now! Onto some great news. A few days ago I received and email from AmbryLane an online shop that carries trendy, affordable fashions for teens and women, and I’ve been asked to become guest blogger for their site!!! The Fancy Instincts Jacket fur and all, the Fox Print Shorts and Military Vest are three of my favorite items. Check out AL at their blog, facebook, tumblr, and twitter!

#aprilphotoaday #colour My fave purse, sadly she’s falling...

Mon, 02 Apr 2012 21:31:02 -0400

#aprilphotoaday #colour

My fave purse, sadly she’s falling apart….I guess I should get a replacement. Today went by so quickly, I was beyond tired,still am, in fact I’m yawning as I type this! Tomorrow is my long day at my 9-5, but I get to see someone special that night. So, Tuesday, if you’re reading this….please go by as quickly as possible!!!!!!

#photoaday #yourreflection Seems fitting for the way I’ve...

Sun, 01 Apr 2012 13:46:29 -0400

#photoaday #yourreflection Seems fitting for the way I’ve felt lately, just not myself. Another month just gives me time to sort it all out and move one. Once you make your mind up, it your choice as to how you feel and the energy you put into it all.

Here’s something I’m willing to try. Most of the...

Sun, 01 Apr 2012 13:38:44 -0400

Here’s something I’m willing to try. Most of the posts will happen at the end of the day(hooray for wifi @ home) Here comes the fun!

i was just thinking.....

Fri, 30 Mar 2012 14:57:41 -0400

“One of the things I find so alarming about the blog world is how “effortless” everything seems. The perfect life, the perfect babies, the perfect jobs and opportunities that fall into laps. Life isn’t like that. No matter how much we try to sugarcoat it to make it seem like a fairytale, there are real struggles there. Daily ones.”- Kaelahbee

The above quote comes from one of my favorite bloggers. I love what Kealah’s done in terms of branding herself,and her presentation. I may sound like broken record after having gushed about K’s PR E-book in a previous post,but, what it boils down to is this: in the few conversations that we’ve had, and in my being an avid reader of her blog, Kaelah is one of the most genuine ladies i’ve ever “met.”

The quote above is something that rings true for us all. Sometimes we get so wrapped up in how to present ourselves, that our message is lost.We focus on what someone else is doing, rather than working with what we have. THe blogosphere has seem to have taken a turn. EVERYONE is a fashion blogger, photographer, designe. To top it all off, they’re loves are perfect! I’ve found myself scrolling through blogs where I see nothing but enthusiasm. This isn’t a bad thing,but, it makes me think….who’s life is that perfect? is everything as bright and shiny as it seems? I know that for me it isn’t,but is it possible? Of course it can be, but, I doubt it’s like this every hour of every day.

For me, things are in grey area. My mom is under the weather, I’m doing a MASSIVE spring cleaning, and I’m in a bit of a lull creative dept. On the bright side I’ve given myself a kick in the bum in terms of my day job, have cut down on a few bills, and have had some really great ideas for this coming season I hope to have in the store in the next few months. Things aren’t effortless, and right now I’m feeling overwhelmed. I’m feeling stressed in the oddest way, but, am slowly working through it. This is a place where I share with you the ups, and right now downs of my world. In the end there’s a light at the end of the tunnel, another song to be song, and always a blank canvas…er shirt that needs to be covered in art.

I don’t cover it up, or shy away from sharing, in the hopes that it helps someone else get through whatever their challenge may be. This is a space for inspiration, discussion, and sometimes confusion….that is my life right now. I know that the energy I put out into building my brand, getting things done at work, or being there for family will come back to me in the best way. I’m ready for it, who’s with me?!

My Chat with Manda Jane of Elfhouse Chronicles

Tue, 27 Mar 2012 21:08:00 -0400

cool beans! you can now check out my latest interview on DMae with Manda of Elfhouse Chronicles!! Manda is a twitter friend o mine ( she’s @elfhousedelight , and i’m @dmae_clothing ) and was nice enough to do a guest post on my blog during my birthday weekend o fun!

thanks so much for having over at EHC!!!

what's with today..today?

Wed, 21 Mar 2012 19:14:15 -0400

Last week my ipod touch arrived…thanks to the giftcard i was given by coworkers and another from my Aunt Max for my birthday. I have yet to figure it all out just yet,but, am having a great time with what i’ve got going on. so far i’ve tried out instagram (nisforneemah) , itunes u (I really do need to brush up on my math skills if i’m pondering going back to school..more on that later), netflix( i’ve fallen for rupaul’s drag race), and a few others. once i perfect them i’ll post more on what I love. what are your favorite apps?

I’ve been dealing with a bit of depression over the past few weeks, and have found that yoga has helped a ton, ginger tea,soothing music, and avoiding the news. There are times where it’s best that I ignore it for a few days, or, until i feel a bit calmer than before. Of course it’s hard to do in a world where we’re constantly wanting or feeling the need to be so connected to everyone and everything all of the time.

What do you do to relax?

back at it!

Tue, 20 Mar 2012 11:40:06 -0400

Hello all! Things are a bit quiet on my end and I do apologize. After a long, stressful week last week I’m a bit under the weather. I will be post as the week progresses and will have features up on a few of the wonderful ladies who are sponsors this month. On Monday, I slept for the most part, and I’d be lying if I said I was at my desk as this was typed(hooray wifi!) I’m back in the desk zombie habit today, and hopefully my tummy will allow me to have more than toast. Wish me luck dear readers!