Close the Gap

It’s hard to stay motivated, and sometimes it’s even harder to not be so critical of your work. These are two things I’ve struggled with this past month.I’m happy to report that I’ve got myself out of my creative rut after being asked to do two custom jobs. I’m nervous about both,but, they’re turning out realllllllly well, and I hope that the ladies love them as much as I do.

There’s been so much going on it’s been hard to keep track! I’ve actually taken to using the calender and alarm features on my phone/ipod, and the physical planner I now carry in my purse daily. I am now the personal assistant to an awesome local business owner in addition to my full-time desk job, and scrambling to get these new designs for DMae perfected and in store. The line has switched shop platforms, craft show season is upon us, and I’ve decided that I need to not only get out there in the public eye,but, things needs to change behind the scenes. This is a good, and scary thing,but I’ve always been one to trust my intuition.

If there’s anything this past year and few months has taught me…it’s that anxiety and worry are not for me!!! In an effort to stay organized and sane through it all I’ve become a list maker, note taker, and fan of checking things off….who knew this could be a little fun?!?!?! I’ve found that I’m one of those “there aren’t enough hours in the day” gals..I’m up with the birds, rush to work, type type type, rush home, eat, shower, clean,*if i’m lucky insert date night here*, look through casting calls, part time job things,internet,read,help mom with *insert things here*, hulu til i fall asleep, aaaaaaaaannnnd repeat!!!! That’s pretty much it, don’t get me wrong there are laughs and smiles in there too!

I’m reading a few books that I found online to help me get a few things straight business wise, and am applying to a few craft shows in the area. Cross those fingers, say a few prayers,and send well wishes my way, because I am scared out of my mind….and excited all the same. I’m all for what’s to come!!!! This moth there will be more blog posts, and maybe a few features as well.

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4th Apr 2013 | 1 note

Did You Say Sale?!

Hello dear friends and fans!

It’s been a while, and things have been cray cray for me! I’ll get back to posting this week though! You know what else happens this week?!?!?!  MY BIRTHDAY!!!!! It’s actually tomorrow, so to celebrate all items are $10 off in the Etsy shop on your total purchase when using the code: happybirthday

I’m off to enjoy lunch with my cousin in Phiily, after that I’ll be coming home to clean up a bit(can you stand the excitement?!?!,) and maybe a late movie with the Mr(yeah, there’s someone special in my life.) More posts coming this week! Have a wonderful Sunday everyone!

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3rd Mar 2013 | 2 notes

Home

Just a quick update, I’m starting again on Etsy…more info to come!!!

20th Feb 2013

Life::: The Spotlight?

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I’m afraid of success. Afraid to really show off my work what if someone really likes it? What of I’m asked to create more, and reveal my process? This is terrifying, always had been. I’d be truly happy to life a full on creative life. I also need health insurance, and a steady income. If I were told that DMae Clothing would take off within the month, I’d seriously consider leaving my full time job. I don’t want to be as big as the well known bloggers,but, I do want my brand to be that big. It comes with the territory, I know! I guess what I’m saying is, I’m ready to be front and center. I’m ready for my close up, I’m ready to have something I do recognized on a greater scale. 

I don’t see myself with a few thousand followers, corporate sponsors, etc…and I think that’s part of the problem. I’m not sure what happens behind the scenes for most, but, know how I’d like things to be done and the way I would/and will continue to present myself to my readers. It’s not the same for everyone,and my niche is the truth. If I’m feeling inspired you’ll know it, if I’m down that is shared as well. I am who I am, and there are allot of different sides to me! I take DMC very seriously, I’m sure I’ve done things backwards and out of order,but, having your own business is a giant learning process. It’s tough, exciting, and I could not see myself being able to do anything else! 

That being said, things will be changing around here with more posts business focused or otherwise, new items being created, and updates on my creative process. How’s that sound? Also, if you’re a Facebook Fan , or IG (nisforneemah) follower you may have seen my post about a new(to me) shop platform.. I’ll be trying out..there will be more on that this coming week. See you then!

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3rd Feb 2013 | 3 notes

Forgive Me

Hello dear readers,

My apologies for the lack of posts here. I am fighting a horrible cold, and haven’t left my bed for days…outside of Christmas dinner with family and a trip to the dr’s yesterday. As soon as I am able to get back to blogging/tweeting/emails etc I will. For now, I’ve been told to rest, hydrate, and rest. I actually think rest was mentioned 4 times…i think the dr knew who she was talking to. Being still has always been hard to do, I feel like I’m missing out on life! I haven’t been this sick in a long while and am so grateful for that. The worst part for me isn’t the high fever, the lost of appetite,or any of that it’s my feeling like the most negative person on the planet! It’s REALLY frustrating, especially considering the fact that positive thought is something I’ve learned to manifest over the past few months. I’m doing my best to relax, and follow the dr’s orders,but, man is it hard!!!!! I cannot wait to start working on new items, and shooting a few ideas I’ve been dreaming up for my portfolio. There’s so much I want to be doing other than laying around,but, I guess it’s what’s needed! 

What are your favorite cold cures? How do you like to pass the time when sick?

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29th Dec 2012 | 1 note

You’ll Find Me……

This past weekend I was asked to bring DMae to Tar Salon in Collingswood Nj for a small holiday event of live music, art, and cocktails. It was last minute,but, a fun time. I wish my camera had charged enough to have allowed me to have gotten better pictures! It was a nice way to meet and greet other artists, and people who shop in the area. The best part….Tar Salon will be carrying DMae Clothing from now through January!!! What does this mean for those of you shopping online? Well, if you’d like to order any of the designs shown in the Cargoh shop you can still do so. There will now be a turn around time for each piece ordered, each design will be available in Unisex sizes Small, Medium, Large, and now Extra Large two in each size. For the tote bags listed there will be one of each. With the new years comes new designs which I’ll post more about as they come together. 

I’m so excited to have DMae in a local store again! In fact the space where Tar is located used to be Rue Couture, the first physical storefront to carry my first official line! I guess it’s all coming full circle now. I’m ready to get the new designs all ready and available to you, and am ready for a new start!

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18th Dec 2012

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOMMY QUEEN OF THE WORLD!!!!

Dear Mommy,

i cannot put into words how grateful I am to have you in my life. You are my greatest supporter, and believe in me when I can’t. Things haven’t been easy for us lately,but, i hope you can see that light at the end of this stupid, crappy tunnel we seem to have found ourselves in. There’s been allot of loss in one form or another,but, that hasn’t stopped you yet. You are literally the sunshine of my life, bringing a smile to my face when I need it the most, and even when I don’t know that I need to buck up! I love you more than I can say, and hope that you’re enjoying your day off. I can hear you snoring from here! haha I love you, love you, love you, and cannot say it enough. You are a great blessing to me and those who know and love you.  I can’t thank you enough for loving and supporting me the way you do, i really am the most fortunate mixed-up kid the world has ever known! All I can try to do is be a 1/4 of the woman you are, and I’m trying believe me! Now I’m crying! Just wanted to let you know I think of you all the time and smile, that i take your advice, even if it’s hard to fear the truth, and that I’m honored to say you’re my mom.

Love you and HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!

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10th Dec 2012

Life::: Cheer

Guys, this is my favorite time of year, from November on through December I am the happiest lady. Alot of friends and family celebrate their birthday’s around this time of year, there’s Thanksgiving, and Christmas, and New Year’s! All of these holidays just mean that there is more time to be spent with the people I love. That right there is a wonderful thing, I love being with family and friends celebrating on matter the occasion it’s a great time.

I’ve got alot of things,and accomplishments to be grateful for this year. I’ve started something new in modeling , I’ve built working relationships via this blog and networking, and I’m coming into my own. I think I may’ve felt like “myself” around the same time last year,but, let me tell you…right now I am a different and much stronger person now more than ever. I thought I knew how tough I was, but, I’ve pulled through some things that I really thought were going to take me down. And you know what? I was in my own way! I was holding onto relationships, things, and feelings that did me no good. I was fighting myself! How silly is that?

Have you ever faced something that made you ignore the light at the end of the tunnel? You threw a hissyfit and sat down in oncoming traffic? It happens, and it’s ok!!! Have your fit, and when you’re done GET UP AND MOVE ONTO THE NEXT THING!!! Easy to say, and hard to do I know!! Believe me, I know first hand how hard it is to do that. A big part of it is noticing the good things, big and small they pile up into a mound of awesome! Take the small steps needed to get you where you want to be and just keep at it, it will turn itself around for the better due to your efforts. The fact that you’re reading this right now, is a result of years of small steps. And the end result is this little engine that can AND will called DMae Clothing. There are some great things to come in the new year, and I’ll be sharing that news with you asap!

Just keep at it, keep taking those steps, and soon you’ll be at a full gallop,I’ll meet you at the finish-line!

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8th Dec 2012 | 2 notes

Sponsor Spotlight!!!!!!

First up Julie of MoonlightShimmer a line of beautiful handmade jewelry, with a focus on necklaces and earrings.

Julie says she originally started making jewelry as a hobby in 2010, and taught myself via online videos and tutorials. The original plan was just to make jewelry for herself and for Christmas presents, but she just kept making more and more pieces. Eventually realizing she wanted to branch out more and decided to try out selling on Etsy. She’s had great success on Etsy and is now selling on consignment in two retail locations and at craft fairs on occasion.

 She is constantly trying out different things and learning new techniques, and likes to post photos on Facebook of new supplies that she’s received or jewelry pieces that she’s in the process of making, you can also find her on Twitter.

Next there’s lifestyle blogger/photographer Elif Onay of Chamomile Dealer Elif blogs to share her life as i happens through her photos and writing. She’s said that blogging has given her a way to connect with other, while sharing what she’d up to. Her latest diy has me wanting to try my hand at pressing plants. I’d tried it once when I was younger,but, would rather put buttercups in my hair.

I hope you’ve enjoyed a look into two more sponsors we’ve had on DMae’s blog, happy friday everyone!

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30th Nov 2012 | 1 note

Happy Shopping/ December Ad Info

Good morning! The Cyber Monday Sale for DMae clothing is now running at the Cargoh Shop! All items listed are ready to ship, and if ordered before 11pm EST will ship on Wednesday!!!! Prices have been DRASTICALLY LOWERED to make room for new products, once the designs listed are gone they are available via custom order. Email me with inquiries: d.mae0515ATgmailDOTcom 

Also December’s FREE AD SPACE CODE is: decemberbaby  Please keep in mind ALL ADS ARE SUBJECT TO MY APPROVAL, and run 30 days from the date the ad is accepted. You will receive an email notification that you ad has been accepted, and ca see all info on ads here. Please do not hesitate to email me with any questions!

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26th Nov 2012 | 2 notes